dear verland,

here's what i have found: resonance works wonders. like attracts like. i find "expanded" vessels (e.v.'s) everywhere.

some e.v.'s are already pretty "out there"; they know their potentials and have tapped into them and owned them and so on. then they meet others who reinforce, teach them, they teach each other, get more expanded, and so on.

these people are not always easy to find in a full-blown process of realizating their potential. so that you as a role model can finetune your own expanded-ness and then attract the resonant frequencies of others to mesh with yours.

and then begin a fun game of ever-expanding.

it may take longer to grow a willing someone than to find one ready made; but, how rewarding to start with whoever you meet...i have found tantric geniuses in whom i can unlock their essence in ten minutes, who have never even heard of tantra or expansion... but it lies within them as potential.

as you bring out your own sense of expanded-ness you will attract stronger resonances and be a better, faster, more effective "transformer" for others.

what i like about this viewpoint is it gives you power and encouragement. do not simply wait for the next e.v. to come along... but to be that e.v. yourself, and then, grow e.v.s all around.

in so doing you will actually become more visable to other e.v.'s who see exactly what you are doing and appreciate you for seeding this expanded awareness and being more fun yourself!

(that's my plan, anyway!) look for the potential, be expanded, and oh yes, unattached to outcome... some people want to expand in the ways you want, and others, well, they want to do their own trip. you get it, yes? stick to your own bliss and be an invitation to teach and play!

xoxox
patti